Chapter 98
Finding Your People
The pilgrim woman was appeased and, being encouraged to talk, gave a long account of Father Amphilochus, who led so holy a life that his hands smelled of incense, and how on her last visit to Kiev some monks she knew let her have the keys of the catacombs, and how she, taking some dried bread with her, had spent two days in the catacombs with the saints. “I’d pray awhile to one, ponder awhile, then go on to another. I’d sleep a bit and then again go and kiss the relics, and there was such peace all around, such…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Connection Style
Think of the last three new people you met - at work, in your neighborhood, or socially. Write down how you approached each interaction: Did you ask questions about their lives? Did you share something genuine about yourself? Did you agree with everything they said or engage honestly when you disagreed? Now identify which interactions felt most natural and which person you'd be most likely to talk to again.
Consider:
- •Notice whether you change your personality based on who you're talking to
- •Pay attention to which conversations energized you versus drained you
- •Consider whether you remember details about what they shared with you
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone made you feel instantly comfortable and accepted. What specific things did they do that created that feeling? How can you offer that same gift to others?
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