Chapter 119
Mother-Daughter Midnight Confessions
One night when the old countess, in nightcap and dressing jacket, without her false curls, and with her poor little knob of hair showing under her white cotton cap, knelt sighing and groaning on a rug and bowing to the ground in prayer, her door creaked and Natásha, also in a dressing jacket with slippers on her bare feet and her hair in curlpapers, ran in. The countess—her prayerful mood dispelled—looked round and frowned. She was finishing her last prayer: “Can it be that this couch will be my grave?” Natásha, flushed and eager, seeing her mother in prayer, suddenly…
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Key Quotes & Analysis
"Can it be that this couch will be my grave?"
Context: Her prayer before Natásha bursts in
Mortality frames a mother about to set a boundary.
In Today's Words:
The countess kneels asking whether the couch will become her grave before Natásha interrupts her prayer with kisses and questions. Parents often feel time shrinking when guiding a daughter through first desire and foolish hope. Hear urgency beneath the joke when a tired mother finally speaks plainly about limits.
"Because he is young, because he is poor, because he is a relation... and because you yourself don’t love him."
Context: Explaining why Natásha cannot marry Borís
She lists society's ledger, not only feeling.
In Today's Words:
The countess says Natásha cannot marry Borís because he is young, poor, a relation, and not loved by her in the way marriage requires. Practical mothers name the whole equation, not just romance or flirtation. Ask which reasons are prejudice and which protect a future you cannot yet see clearly.
"Well, I won’t marry, but let him come if he enjoys it and I enjoy it."
Context: Rejecting marriage while keeping Borís's attention
She wants admiration without the cost adults foresee.
In Today's Words:
Natásha says she will not marry yet lets Borís visit if they both enjoy it, smiling at her mother in the dark bedroom. Wanting attention without commitment is readable at sixteen and costly for everyone else in the house. Name who pays when fun has no declared ending or honest label.
"Next day the countess called Borís aside and had a talk with him, after which he ceased coming to the Rostóvs’."
Context: Closing action after the bedroom conversation
The mother ends the drift when talk with Natásha fails.
In Today's Words:
The next day the countess pulls Borís aside, speaks with him privately, and he stops visiting the Rostóvs entirely without a scene in the drawing room. Sometimes love requires an adult conversation you cannot delegate to the teenager. When hints fail, decide whether you will end the harm yourself.
Thematic Threads
Mother-Daughter Intimacy
In This Chapter
Night talks in cap and curlpapers mix kisses, jokes, and serious warnings
Development
Private warmth precedes the countess's public action with Borís
In Your Life:
You might save hard truths for the hours when armor is off and trust is highest.
Just So
In This Chapter
Natásha wants Borís's attention without marriage or declared love
Development
The countess sees injury to both and acts next day
In Your Life:
You might want the feeling of a relationship while refusing the name that would define costs.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
This is not a test. Five prompts guide you through the chapter, from how it opens to how it closes, so you notice context and rhythm rather than facts to memorize. Sit with each question in your own words. When you see "One way to read it," treat it as a starting point, not the only answer.
- 1
Why does Natásha interrupt her mother's prayer?
analysis • surfaceOne way to read it
She wants their usual midnight talk and has come specifically about Borís.
- 2
What reasons does the countess give for saying Natásha cannot marry Borís?
analysis • mediumOne way to read it
He is young, poor, a relation, and Natásha does not love him; visits may injure her with other suitors.
- 3
What does Natásha mean by wanting Borís just so?
application • mediumOne way to read it
She wants his attention and enjoyment without marriage or declared commitment.
- 4
How does Natásha describe Borís and Pierre differently?
application • deepOne way to read it
She calls Borís narrow gray like a clock and Pierre dark-blue, red, and square, using color instead of analysis.
- 5
Why does the countess speak to Borís instead of only lecturing Natásha?
reflection • deepOne way to read it
Natásha will not stop the visits; ending the drift requires an adult conversation with Borís.
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Protection Network
Draw three circles representing different areas of your life (work, family, finances, health, etc.). In each circle, identify one person who has the courage to tell you hard truths—and one person you feel responsible for protecting. Write down one specific situation where you might need to be the 'bad guy' to help someone you care about.
Consider:
- •Consider whether the people who challenge you are actually looking out for your best interests
- •Think about whether your protective instincts come from love or from your own fears and need for control
- •Ask yourself if you're avoiding difficult conversations that could prevent bigger problems later
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone's 'no' saved you from a mistake you couldn't see coming. What did they understand that you didn't? How can you develop that same protective wisdom for others?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 120: Getting Ready for the Grand Ball
With Boris no longer visiting, the Rostov household settles into new rhythms. But major changes are coming that will test every family bond and assumption about their comfortable world.
