Chapter 117
The Business of Marriage
The Rostóvs’ monetary affairs had not improved during the two years they had spent in the country. Though Nicholas Rostóv had kept firmly to his resolution and was still serving modestly in an obscure regiment, spending comparatively little, the way of life at Otrádnoe—Mítenka’s management of affairs, in particular—was such that the debts inevitably increased every year. The only resource obviously presenting itself to the old count was to apply for an official post, so he had come to Petersburg to look for one and also, as he said, to let the lassies enjoy themselves for the last time. Soon…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Spot the Desperation Deal
Think of a situation in your life where you felt pressured to accept something because you had limited options. Write down what you were desperate for, what the other person offered, and what they gained from the arrangement. Then identify three warning signs that someone might be taking advantage of your vulnerability.
Consider:
- •Notice how timing affects your judgment - are you being rushed to decide?
- •Ask yourself what the other person really gets out of helping you
- •Consider whether this 'opportunity' would still seem good if you weren't in crisis
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you had to make a major decision while under pressure. What would you do differently now, and how can you create more options for yourself in future difficult situations?
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