Chapter 80
Dancing Into Love at the Ball
Iogel’s were the most enjoyable balls in Moscow. So said the mothers as they watched their young people executing their newly learned steps, and so said the youths and maidens themselves as they danced till they were ready to drop, and so said the grown-up young men and women who came to these balls with an air of condescension and found them most enjoyable. That year two marriages had come of these balls. The two pretty young Princesses Gorchakóv met suitors there and were married and so further increased the fame of these dances. What distinguished them from others was…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Practice the Fearless Invitation
Think of someone in your life who seems to hold back—maybe they're shy at work meetings, reluctant to share ideas, or self-conscious in social situations. Write down three specific ways you could extend a 'fearless invitation' like Natasha did. Focus on approaches that show genuine interest in their potential rather than trying to fix or change them.
Consider:
- •What hidden strengths might this person have that others overlook?
- •How could you create a safe space for them to take a small risk?
- •What would authentic enthusiasm look like in your specific situation?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone saw potential in you that you didn't see in yourself. How did they approach you, and what made you feel safe enough to try something new?
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