Chapter 78
When Mothers Make Excuses for Bad Men
Rostóv’s share in Dólokhov’s duel with Bezúkhov was hushed up by the efforts of the old count, and instead of being degraded to the ranks as he expected he was appointed an adjutant to the governor general of Moscow. As a result he could not go to the country with the rest of the family, but was kept all summer in Moscow by his new duties. Dólokhov recovered, and Rostóv became very friendly with him during his convalescence. Dólokhov lay ill at his mother’s who loved him passionately and tenderly, and old Mary Ivánovna, who had grown fond of Rostóv…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Spot the Red Flag Pattern
Think of someone who made you uncomfortable but who others defended or praised. Map out their tactics: What noble-sounding reasons did they give for their behavior? Who vouched for them and why? What made you uncomfortable despite their good reputation? Write down the specific pattern you recognize.
Consider:
- •Notice how they used other people's voices to defend themselves rather than addressing concerns directly
- •Pay attention to the gap between their stated values and their actual behavior toward vulnerable people
- •Consider whether your discomfort was about their actions or just their words and reputation
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you ignored your gut instincts about someone because others vouched for them. What happened, and what would you do differently now?
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