Chapter 129
The Price of Love's Approval
Prince Andrew needed his father’s consent to his marriage, and to obtain this he started for the country next day. His father received his son’s communication with external composure, but inward wrath. He could not comprehend how anyone could wish to alter his life or introduce anything new into it, when his own life was already ending. “If only they would let me end my days as I want to,” thought the old man, “then they might do as they please.” With his son, however, he employed the diplomacy he reserved for important occasions and, adopting a quiet tone, discussed…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Identify the Waiting Game
Think of a current situation where someone is making you wait for something important - a job decision, medical appointment, relationship milestone, or major purchase. Map out who benefits from the delay and who suffers. Then identify whether this waiting serves a legitimate purpose or if someone is hoping your enthusiasm will fade.
Consider:
- •Who has the power to end the waiting period and what do they gain by extending it?
- •How has the waiting already changed your feelings about what you originally wanted?
- •What would happen if you set your own deadline and walked away if it isn't met?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when forced waiting changed your mind about something you once desperately wanted. Was the outcome better or worse than if you had gotten what you wanted immediately?
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