Necessary, and Hated for It
Polina does not hide the contradiction. She hates him because she has allowed him to go to such lengths. The devotion is not a secret he forced on her. It is a permission she resents and will not revoke. The tutor's place in the household is already this: necessary enough to keep, despised for having been kept.
Key Insight
Some contempt is not about what you did. It is about what the other person cannot stand having needed. If they hate you for access they granted, leaving is not cruelty. It is refusing to be the proof of their self-disgust.
“I hate you because I have allowed you to go to such lengths”Full analysis







