When Respect Becomes Bustle
They say it is according to the rules of propriety. Are gems and silk all that is meant? They say it is music. Are bells and drums all that is meant? Tsai Wo wants to shorten mourning because a year is enough for grain and fire-sticks. Confucius asks whether he would feel at ease. If you can, do it. Then he marks the want of virtue in a man who can feel at ease too soon.
Key Insight
Props are not the rite. Ease at the wrong time is also a kind of false form. Propriety includes how long a feeling is supposed to last, not only which object you hold.






