Carrying Grief While You Lead
At Dido's feast he retells the night Troy died: the horse, Priam slaughtered, Anchises on his back, Ascanius by the hand. He looks back for Creusa and finds only her shade, telling him to go. The story is not a résumé. It is a wound he agrees to open in public.
Key Insight
People follow a leader who can name what burned. Sanitizing the night would have made Aeneas sound heroic and made the survivors feel alone in the wreckage.
“Nor tears, nor cries, can give the dead relief.”







