Chapter 47
Treating People as Human Beings
1.I am glad to learn, through those who come from you, that you live on friendly terms with your slaves. This befits a sensible and well-educated man like yourself. “They are slaves,” people declare.[1] Nay, rather they are men. “Slaves!” No, comrades. “Slaves!” No, they are unpretentious friends. “Slaves!” No, they are our fellow-slaves, if one reflects that Fortune has equal rights over slaves and free men alike. 2. That is why I smile at those who think it degrading for a man to dine with his slave. But why should they think it degrading? It is only because…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Flip the Power Script
Think of a situation where you have some authority over others (as a parent, supervisor, trainer, or even just being the one with more experience). Write down how you typically handle giving direction or correction. Then rewrite the same scenario from the other person's perspective - what would it feel like to be on the receiving end of your approach?
Consider:
- •Focus on specific words and tone you use, not just the content
- •Consider whether you explain the 'why' behind your requests or just give orders
- •Notice if you acknowledge the other person's perspective or just push your agenda
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone in authority over you made you feel either respected or diminished. What specific actions created that feeling, and how did it affect your willingness to cooperate with them?
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