Chapter 03
The Weight of Discovery
III As for Tess Durbeyfield, she did not so easily dislodge the incident from her consideration. She had no spirit to dance again for a long time, though she might have had plenty of partners; but ah! they did not speak so nicely as the strange young man had done. It was not till the rays of the sun had absorbed the young stranger’s retreating figure on the hill that she shook off her temporary sadness and answered her would-be partner in the affirmative. She remained with her comrades till dusk, and participated with a certain zest in the dancing;…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Family Rescue Patterns
Draw a simple family tree or friend network. Next to each person, write one word describing their typical role in crises: Dreamer, Rescuer, Avoider, Victim, etc. Circle yourself and honestly assess your role. Then identify one specific boundary you could set to protect your own goals while still caring about others.
Consider:
- •Notice who consistently creates problems versus who solves them
- •Consider whether your 'helping' might actually enable irresponsible behavior
- •Think about what you sacrifice when you always step in to rescue others
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you stepped in to fix someone else's crisis. What did it cost you, and what would have happened if you hadn't intervened? How might you handle a similar situation differently now?
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