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Anne Brontë

When Kindness Becomes Weakness

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On their third wedding anniversary Helen records two months alone with Arthur after the guests' departure: master and mistress, parents of a merry child, bound by civility without love or sympathy. Arthur is peevish over Annabella's absence, calls Helen cold and repulsive, and refuses separation because gossip would blame him. Helen threatens to stop unpaid stewardship if bondage grows intolerable; he would rather she wept than stayed marble-calm.

He slips back into wine despite Annabella's earlier influence, blames Helen for driving him to it, and alternates brutishness with self-pity. Helen warns that drink disfigures him and that Annabella would withdraw her favour; coarse abuse is the usual reply. Hargrave and Arthur hunt together; Helen almost welcomes the distraction though Hargrave's propriety lately tempts her to trust him.

A thaw in Helen's hardness ends violently. Arthur tosses her Lady Lowborough's impassioned letter with blasphemous defiance of their marriages and titters at Helen's pallor. She returns it saying she will take a lesson by it, then snatches little Arthur from his father's knee when the child cries for papa. Arthur swears and carries the boy off. Helen grieves that her son already loves his corrupting father more than her, yet clings to scripture for one who sits in darkness: trust in the Lord and stay upon God.

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Some marriages survive as logistics, not bonds. Helen keeps house while Arthur calls her marble-hearted for refusing to perform grief.

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Two months alone after the guests, he is peevish over Annabella's absence and calls Helen cold for refusing to perform the grief he caused. Civility without sympathy is the household now. He wants a marble wife to blame, because a wife who will not act injury leaves him alone with the vacancy he made.

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Another year is past, and Helen is weary, yet she cannot wish to die and leave her son in this world alone. Little Arthur already prefers his jocund, indulgent papa. Then, on a May evening in the park, Walter Hargrave dismounts, walks her by the water, and pours out a passionate appeal that she cuts short with scorn and pity.

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Chapter 36

When Kindness Becomes Weakness

December 20th, 1824.—This is the third anniversary of our felicitous union. It is now two months since our guests left us to the enjoyment of each other’s society; and I have had nine weeks’ experience of this new phase of conjugal life—two persons living together, as master and mistress of the house, and father and mother of a winsome, merry little child, with the mutual understanding that there is no love, friendship, or sympathy between them. As far as in me lies, I endeavour to live peaceably with him: I treat him with unimpeachable civility, give up my convenience to…

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