Chapter 21
One Person's Gain, Another's Loss
THAT THE PROFIT OF ONE MAN IS THE DAMAGE OF ANOTHER Demades the Athenian—[Seneca, De Beneficiis, vi. 38, whence nearly the whole of this chapter is taken.]—condemned one of his city, whose trade it was to sell the necessaries for funeral ceremonies, upon pretence that he demanded unreasonable profit, and that that profit could not accrue to him, but by the death of a great number of people. A judgment that appears to be ill grounded, forasmuch as no profit whatever can possibly be made but at the expense of another, and that by the same rule he should condemn…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Hidden Trade-offs
Think of a recent success or good fortune in your life—a job, promotion, good deal, or opportunity. Write down who might have lost out when you gained. Then consider: Did you acknowledge this trade-off at the time? How did you justify it to yourself? What would change if you were more honest about these hidden costs?
Consider:
- •Look beyond obvious competitors to indirect effects on others
- •Consider how systems and structures create these trade-offs, not just individual choices
- •Think about the difference between necessary competition and unnecessary harm
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone else's gain came at your expense. How did that feel? What did you learn about how these trade-offs work from the losing side?
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