Chapter 78
When Illusions Shatter Completely
CHAPTER LXXVIII. “Would it were yesterday and I i’ the grave, With her sweet faith above for monument.” Rosamond and Will stood motionless—they did not know how long—he looking towards the spot where Dorothea had stood, and she looking towards him with doubt. It seemed an endless time to Rosamond, in whose inmost soul there was hardly so much annoyance as gratification from what had just happened. Shallow natures dream of an easy sway over the emotions of others, trusting implicitly in their own petty magic to turn the deepest streams, and confident, by pretty gestures and remarks, of making…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Influence Style
Think about how you typically get people to do what you want - at work, at home, with friends. Write down your usual methods, then honestly assess: Are people genuinely convinced, or just avoiding conflict? Consider a recent situation where your usual approach didn't work.
Consider:
- •Notice the difference between someone saying yes and someone meaning yes
- •Consider whether your methods would work on someone who wasn't trying to be polite
- •Think about how it feels when someone uses your own tactics on you
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you realized someone was just being polite, not actually agreeing with you. How did that change your approach?
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