Chapter 62
The Final Farewell
CHAPTER LXII. He was a squyer of lowe degre, That loved the king’s daughter of Hungrie. —Old Romance. Will Ladislaw’s mind was now wholly bent on seeing Dorothea again, and forthwith quitting Middlemarch. The morning after his agitating scene with Bulstrode he wrote a brief letter to her, saying that various causes had detained him in the neighborhood longer than he had expected, and asking her permission to call again at Lowick at some hour which she would mention on the earliest possible day, he being anxious to depart, but unwilling to do so until she had granted him an…
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Key Quotes & Analysis
"It is certainly trying to a man's dignity to reappear when he is not expected to do so: a first farewell has pathos in it, but to come back for a second lends an opening to comedy"
Context: Will's embarrassment about asking to see Dorothea again
Social comedy masks real need. Will fears sneers about motives more than he fears Dorothea's no, yet chooses direct request over chance encounter.
In Today's Words:
The narrator says returning for a second goodbye feels undignified and comic after a first farewell. Pride about how a visit looks can almost stop necessary truth from being spoken. When you need one more conversation, ask for it plainly rather than staging an accident.
"under no circumstances would I have given men the chance of saying that I sought money under the pretext of seeking, something else. There was no need of other safeguard against me, the safeguard of wealth was enough."
Context: Will explains to Dorothea why he must leave after insult and codicil
Will names the town's reading of him as fortune-hunter. Casaubon's codicil and Bulstrode's taint converge in his insistence on honor without her fortune.
In Today's Words:
Will said he would never let anyone say he wanted Dorothea's money while pretending to want something else. A punitive will can poison love before either person speaks their heart. If you are barred by money rules, say whether you are leaving the person or only the price attached.
"Of course I shall go on living as a man might do who had seen heaven in a trance."
Context: Will tells Dorothea what is forbidden to him even if within reach
The line is ghostly wooing: renunciation spoken as devotion. Will refuses to woo while describing a love that makes ordinary life afterward pale.
In Today's Words:
Will said he would live like someone who had seen heaven in a trance and then woke. You can love deeply and still walk away to protect honor or another person's name. When someone speaks in riddles about forbidden care, ask what they are renouncing before you guess the wrong name.
"Joy came first, in spite of the threatening train behind it, joy in the impression that it was really herself whom Will loved and was renouncing"
Context: Dorothea after Will leaves the Grange library
Eliot gives Dorothea inward victory after public humiliation. Renunciation read as love reframes the parting from defeat to secret certainty.
In Today's Words:
The narrator says Dorothea felt joy first because she believed Will loved her and was giving her up for honor. Sometimes clarity arrives only after the door closes. When someone leaves to protect your name, ask later what they said in action, not only what gossip claimed.
Thematic Threads
Love
In This Chapter
Will and Dorothea finally acknowledge their mutual feelings but cannot act on them due to external constraints
Development
Evolution from Dorothea's dutiful marriage to Casaubon to discovering authentic, passionate love that must be sacrificed
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you have deep feelings for someone but circumstances make acting on them complicated or potentially harmful.
Class
In This Chapter
Will's lack of fortune makes him appear as a potential fortune-hunter, poisoning any possibility of pursuing Dorothea
Development
Consistent thread showing how economic inequality shapes and limits personal relationships throughout the novel
In Your Life:
You see this when financial differences create power imbalances or judgment in your relationships, romantic or otherwise.
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Both characters are bound by what society expects of widows, gentlemen, and proper courtship, forcing them apart
Development
Ongoing exploration of how social rules constrain authentic human connection and personal choice
In Your Life:
You experience this when you modify your behavior or choices based on what others might think rather than what feels right to you.
Pride
In This Chapter
Will's pride prevents him from being seen as mercenary; Dorothea's prevents her from openly declaring her feelings
Development
Building on earlier themes of how pride both protects and isolates characters from genuine connection
In Your Life:
You might notice this when your ego keeps you from being vulnerable or asking for what you need in relationships.
Sacrifice
In This Chapter
Both characters choose to sacrifice their happiness for the other's reputation and social standing
Development
Introduced here as a complex moral choice that isn't clearly right or wrong
In Your Life:
You face this when you must choose between your personal desires and protecting someone else from consequences or judgment.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
This is not a test. Five prompts guide you through the chapter, from how it opens to how it closes, so you notice context and rhythm rather than facts to memorize. Sit with each question in your own words. When you see "One way to read it," treat it as a starting point, not the only answer.
- 1
Will feels that returning for a 'second farewell' makes him look undignified and possibly comic. What does this reveal about how social appearances constrain genuine emotion in Middlemarch?
analysis • surfaceOne way to read it
Will's concern shows how provincial society values theatrical dignity over authentic feeling. The fear of appearing 'comic' forces him to prioritize reputation over honest communication with Dorothea.
- 2
When Mrs. Cadwallader spreads gossip about Will and Mrs. Lydgate, Dorothea defends him with 'indignant energy' despite her private doubts. Why does Eliot show this internal conflict?
analysis • mediumOne way to read it
Eliot reveals how loyalty can coexist with uncertainty. Dorothea's public defense shows moral courage, while her private fears demonstrate how gossip plants seeds of doubt even in trusting hearts.
- 3
Consider modern situations where someone avoids pursuing a relationship to protect the other person's reputation or financial security. What parallels do you see with Will's decision?
application • mediumOne way to read it
Like Will, people today might avoid relationships across class lines or when one partner faces career consequences. The same pride and protective instincts that drive Will still influence romantic decisions.
- 4
Imagine you're advising Dorothea as she realizes Will loves her but feels bound by social constraints. What specific steps could she take to honor both her feelings and her circumstances?
application • deepOne way to read it
Dorothea might wait a respectful period, then gradually challenge social expectations through her actions and philanthropy. She could demonstrate that love based on mutual respect transcends class distinctions, though it requires patience and courage.
- 5
Will and Dorothea both experience their deepest connection through what they cannot say to each other. What does this suggest about how profound relationships sometimes depend on restraint?
reflection • deepOne way to read it
Their unspoken understanding creates intimacy that words might cheapen or complicate. Sometimes love deepens through sacrifice and restraint, proving its authenticity through what we're willing to give up rather than pursue.
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map the Competing Values
Draw two columns. In the left, list what Will and Dorothea each want (their hearts' desires). In the right, list what they're protecting by walking away (their values and concerns). Then identify a current situation in your life where you're torn between what you want and what you think you should do.
Consider:
- •Notice which concerns are about protecting others versus protecting your own reputation
- •Ask whether the 'honorable' choice actually serves anyone or just avoids discomfort
- •Consider what you might regret more: trying and failing, or never trying at all
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you chose to protect someone else's feelings or reputation over your own desires. Looking back, was it truly the loving choice, or were you avoiding a difficult conversation? What would you do differently now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 63: Pride and the Helping Hand
Christmas tables will buzz about Lydgate's debts while Farebrother watches his colleague fray, and Bulstrode's care of Raffles will move toward a death that poisons the hospital trust.
