Chapter 21
When Illusions Begin to Crack
“Hire facounde eke full womanly and plain, No contrefeted termes had she To semen wise.” —CHAUCER. It was in that way Dorothea came to be sobbing as soon as she was securely alone. But she was presently roused by a knock at the door, which made her hastily dry her eyes before saying, “Come in.” Tantripp had brought a card, and said that there was a gentleman waiting in the lobby. The courier had told him that only Mrs. Casaubon was at home, but he said he was a relation of Mr. Casaubon’s: would she see him? “Yes,” said Dorothea,…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Reality Check Your Relationships
Think of an important relationship in your life—romantic, friendship, or work. Write down three things you assumed about this person when you first met them, then three things you've learned about them that surprised you. Look for patterns: Are you still expecting them to be your original assumptions, or have you adjusted to who they actually are?
Consider:
- •Notice whether your surprises were positive, negative, or just different from what you expected
- •Consider whether you're still trying to change them back to your original vision
- •Ask yourself if you're accepting their actual personality or still hoping they'll become someone else
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you had to let go of who you wanted someone to be and accept who they actually were. What did you learn about yourself in that process?
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