Chapter 41
The Weight of Unwanted Gifts
In vain should I attempt to describe the astonishment and disquiet of Herbert, when he and I and Provis sat down before the fire, and I recounted the whole of the secret. Enough, that I saw my own feelings reflected in Herbert’s face, and not least among them, my repugnance towards the man who had done so much for me. What would alone have set a division between that man and us, if there had been no other dividing circumstance, was his triumph in my story. Saving his troublesome sense of having been “low” on one occasion since his return,—on…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Unwanted Saviors
Think of someone in your life who frequently offers unsolicited help, advice, or 'improvements' to your situation. Write down their specific behaviors and what you think motivates them. Then identify what they get out of helping you that has nothing to do with your actual needs or wishes.







