Taking Correction From People Who Know You
The Friend Who Will Not Flatter
Elton snubs Harriet. Knightley asks her to dance. Emma sees that the man who argues with her is also the man who will not let a girl with less power be humiliated. Correction and care turn out to be one character. If someone is only kind to you, their rebuke may be control. If they are kind when you are not the one being protected, listen harder.
Key Insight
Trust the standard that still applies when you are not the beneficiary. A flatterer is generous downward only when it costs them nothing.







