Recognizing Your Own Blind Spots
Unpracticed at Being Wrong
Frank returns from Richmond for a restless quarter-hour visit. Emma watches for proof of attachment and decides absence has cooled him. She renames her anxiety: not love for Frank, but fear that his feelings remain warm. The correction is partial and still keeps her at the center.
Key Insight
Downgrading a misread is progress, but naming the fear instead of the object is how certainty survives its first correction. Ask what you are afraid of losing, not only what you think you feel.






