Distinguishing Genuine Help from Ego
Help That Needs an Audience
Emma hosts the Eltons and invites Jane Fairfax out of guilt after Knightley's words about neglected attentions. Mrs. Elton vows to fetch Jane's letters by servant, claiming care Emma recognizes as seizure. Both women want to be seen helping Jane; neither asks what Jane needs.
Key Insight
Help announced for an audience is often about the helper's virtue. If the other person cannot refuse the arrangement, compare your motive to Knightley's quieter interventions.






