Recognizing Your Own Blind Spots
Unpracticed at Being Wrong
Jane Fairfax is reserved, accomplished, and inconvenient. Emma's hostility outruns any charge she can file. The intensity is the clue. Jane is a picture of what discipline looks like when you do not have Emma's leisure. The blind spot is not Jane. It is the self Emma will not compare.
Key Insight
A strong, under-explained dislike is often a comparison you refuse to run. Name what the other person has that would cost you to admit.






