Chapter 18
When Friends Become Prosecutors
1Then answered Bildad the Shuhite, and said, 2How long will it be ere ye make an end of words? mark, and afterwards we will speak. 3Wherefore are we counted as beasts, and reputed vile in your sight? 4He teareth himself in his anger: shall the earth be forsaken for thee? and shall the rock be removed out of his place? 5Yea, the light of the wicked shall be put out, and the spark of his fire shall not shine. 6The light shall be dark in his tabernacle, and his candle shall be put out…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Recognize Defensive Escalation
Think of a recent situation where someone responded to your problem or concern by getting more aggressive, lecturing you, or trying to shut down the conversation. Write down what you originally said, how they escalated, and what they might have been protecting in themselves. Then brainstorm three ways you could have navigated that situation differently.
Consider:
- •Look for the fear behind their anger - what worldview or sense of safety were you threatening?
- •Notice if they tried to force you into a category that made them more comfortable
- •Consider whether this person was actually capable of holding space for your reality
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you caught yourself escalating defensively. What were you protecting? How did it feel to recognize that pattern in yourself?
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