Chapter 17
The Conquest Reflex
Next day at eleven o’clock in the morning Vronsky drove to the station of the Petersburg railway to meet his mother, and the first person he came across on the great flight of steps was Oblonsky, who was expecting his sister by the same train. “Ah! your excellency!” cried Oblonsky, “whom are you meeting?” “My mother,” Vronsky responded, smiling, as everyone did who met Oblonsky. He shook hands with him, and together they ascended the steps. “She is to be here from Petersburg today.” “I was looking out for you till two o’clock last night. Where did you go after…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Close the Distance
Think of a current situation where you're justifying a choice that might hurt someone else. Write down three specific ways you're maintaining emotional distance from that person. Then imagine their actual face and feelings - what would they say if they knew the full truth about your actions or intentions?
Consider:
- •Notice how your justifications sound different when you picture the real person
- •Pay attention to any discomfort that arises - that's your conscience working
- •Consider whether your choice would change if you had to explain it face-to-face
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you realized the real impact of your actions on someone else. How did that recognition change your behavior going forward?
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