Being Truly Seen
Paul is jealous of Lucy's friendships, suspicious of her reading, intrusive about her opinions. He pays more attention to her than anyone else in the novel, and she finds it maddening. He does not look through her. He does not look past her. He looks.
Key Insight
After years of practiced invisibility, accurate attention feels like exposure. The discomfort is the proof that the look is real. You cannot curate yourself for a person who is already watching.






