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Friedrich Nietzsche
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A hermit thinks even one other person is too many. Yet I and me talk so hard inside that a friend is needed like a cork to keep the conversation from sinking. Our faith in others shows where we want faith in ourselves.
To have a friend you must be able to fight for him and even be his enemy. Honor the enemy inside your friend. Be closest when you resist him, not when you melt into him. Do not show everything naked; that shocks and is not real honor. A friend should be an arrow toward the Superman. See him asleep and remember man is something to be surpassed.
Pity must be careful and hard-shelled. Slaves and tyrants cannot be true friends. Zarathustra says woman is not yet capable of friendship, and asks which men are. He would give a foe as much as many give a friend. There is comradeship; may there one day be friendship. Often we attack to hide that we are vulnerable. True reverence may say: be at least my enemy. Divining silence matters in friendship. Not everything should be seen awake. Be bread, air, and medicine to your friend when you can. Let friendship aim higher than comfort.
The friends who agree with you least often are sometimes doing you more good than the ones who agree with you most. Zarathustra tells his listeners that in one's friend one shall have one's best enemy, and that showing yourself completely unguarded is not intimacy but a disrespect toward someone who deserves your full, distinct self.
The next time a friend pushes back on a decision you have already made, stay with the discomfort long enough to hear whether they are seeing something you have missed.
Zarathustra has walked many lands and seen many peoples. He found no greater power on earth than good and bad, and each people hangs its own table of values above itself.
What this chapter proves — the pattern beneath the scene
In this chapter, the lesson is Self-Overcoming — The Self Is Not a Place to Stay.
The card below names the pattern this chapter proves — carry it with you into Nietzsche's prophetic speech: the three metamorphoses, the cold monster, the broken tables, the gateway, and the Great Noontide.
Self-Overcoming
True friendship, Zarathustra says, must survive enmity when necessary. Solitude creates an internal dialogue between I and me; a real friend holds up the mirror hard enough to hurt. Kindness that never risks conflict is often cowardice.
Key Insight
Self-overcoming needs relationships that can tell you the truth without leaving. A friend who only agrees is another way to stay asleep.
Chapter 14
“One, is always too many about me”—thinketh the anchorite. “Always once one—that maketh two in the long run!” I and me are always too earnestly in conversation: how could it be endured, if there were not a friend? The friend of the anchorite is always the third one: the third one is the cork which preventeth the conversation of the two sinking into the depth. Ah! there are too many depths for all anchorites. Therefore, do they long so much for a friend, and for his elevation. Our faith in others betrayeth wherein we would fain have faith in ourselves.…
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Draw three circles on paper. In the first, list people who usually agree with you and make you feel good. In the second, list people who challenge your thinking or point out your blind spots. In the third, list people you challenge or help grow. Look at the balance between these circles and identify what's missing.
Write about a time when someone challenged you in a way that made you better, even though it was uncomfortable at first. What made their approach effective rather than hurtful?
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