Chapter 29
The Weight of Secrets
XXIX “Now, who mid ye think I’ve heard news o’ this morning?” said Dairyman Crick, as he sat down to breakfast next day, with a riddling gaze round upon the munching men and maids. “Now, just who mid ye think?” One guessed, and another guessed. Mrs Crick did not guess, because she knew already. “Well,” said the dairyman, “’tis that slack-twisted ’hore’s-bird of a feller, Jack Dollop. He’s lately got married to a widow-woman.” “Not Jack Dollop? A villain—to think o’ that!” said a milker. The name entered quickly into Tess Durbeyfield’s consciousness, for it was the name of the…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Secret Weight
Think of a time when you held back from pursuing something you wanted because of something in your past. Write down what you wanted, what you were afraid would happen if people knew, and what you actually lost by holding back. Then ask: was your fear bigger than what you threw away?
Consider:
- •Consider whether the secret was actually as disqualifying as you believed
- •Think about how shame might have been making decisions for you
- •Reflect on whether you were protecting yourself or punishing yourself
Journaling Prompt
Write about a relationship or opportunity you're currently holding back from. What would happen if you chose courage over shame in this situation?
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