Protecting Children from Harmful Influence
Gilbert's sister and Helen already disagree about how a child should be raised. The quarrel looks like manners. It is a preview. Grassdale will not treat little Arthur as a person in training. It will treat him as an audience for men's jokes.
Key Insight
Arguments about raising a child are rarely about porridge. They are about which adults get to write the boy's character. Listen for who laughs when the child is the punchline.






