Recognizing Your Own Blind Spots
Helen refuses him. Gilbert hears contempt. She is protecting a child and a door he cannot see. He upgrades the refusal into a character judgment so he will not have to sit with not knowing.
Key Insight
Blind spots love a clean story. If rejection arrives without a plot you like, you will invent one. Prefer 'I do not have the file' to 'she is cruel.' The second sentence is anesthesia.







