Recognizing Your Own Blind Spots
Gilbert meets Helen's eyes at church and feels insulted. He is already half promised to Eliza, already restless enough to make a stranger into a project. The look may be caution. He files it as pride. The blind spot begins as a feeling he trusts too fast.
Key Insight
The first error is treating your sting as a fact about the other person. If a glance hurts, ask what you needed from a stranger in a pew. Need is not evidence.






