Chapter 10
Quick or Slow Speech
OF QUICK OR SLOW SPEECH “Onc ne furent a touts toutes graces donnees.” [“All graces were never yet given to any one man.”—A verse in one of La Brebis’ Sonnets.] So we see in the gift of eloquence, wherein some have such a facility and promptness, and that which we call a present wit so easy, that they are ever ready upon all occasions, and never to be surprised; and others more heavy and slow, never venture to utter anything but what they have long premeditated, and taken great care and pains to fit and prepare. Now, as we teach…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Communication Patterns
Think of three recent conversations where you felt either really confident or completely tongue-tied. For each situation, write down what was happening around you, how much you had prepared, and whether you were trying to impress someone. Look for patterns in when you communicate naturally versus when you get stuck.
Consider:
- •Notice whether you perform better with preparation time or spontaneous responses
- •Pay attention to who was present - some people bring out your authentic voice, others make you perform
- •Consider whether the stakes felt high or low, and how that affected your communication
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you surprised yourself by saying exactly the right thing without planning it. What was different about that moment compared to times when you rehearsed but still felt awkward?
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