Chapter 37
The Unexpected Child Arrives
When Sue reached home Jude was awaiting her at the door to take the initial step towards their marriage. She clasped his arm, and they went along silently together, as true comrades oft-times do. He saw that she was preoccupied, and forbore to question her. “Oh Jude—I’ve been talking to her,” she said at last. “I wish I hadn’t! And yet it is best to be reminded of things.” “I hope she was civil.” “Yes. I—I can’t help liking her—just a little bit! She’s not an ungenerous nature; and I am so glad her difficulties have all suddenly ended.” She…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Postponement Patterns
List three important decisions you've been postponing or avoiding. For each one, identify what external circumstance could force your hand, and what values or principles you might compromise under pressure. Then consider: what would making this choice proactively, on your own timeline, look like instead?
Consider:
- •Consider both positive and negative external pressures that could eliminate your choice
- •Think about whether postponing serves you or just feels comfortable
- •Examine what you're really afraid of losing by deciding
Journaling Prompt
Write about a decision you made reactively under pressure versus one you made proactively on your own terms. How did the process and outcome differ? What would you do differently now?
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