Chapter 36
Coming of Age and Hard Truths
Herbert and I went on from bad to worse, in the way of increasing our debts, looking into our affairs, leaving Margins, and the like exemplary transactions; and Time went on, whether or no, as he has a way of doing; and I came of age,—in fulfilment of Herbert’s prediction, that I should do so before I knew where I was. Herbert himself had come of age eight months before me. As he had nothing else than his majority to come into, the event did not make a profound sensation in Barnard’s Inn. But we had looked forward to my…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Context Switchers
Think of three important people in your life who operate differently in different settings - maybe a boss who's also a friend, a family member who's also a coworker, or someone who acts differently at church versus at the bar. For each person, write down what advice or help you might get from their 'professional self' versus their 'personal self.'
Consider:
- •Consider what pressures or responsibilities might cause each version to give different advice
- •Think about timing - when is each person most likely to be in their helpful mode?
- •Notice which version of yourself you present in different situations
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you got conflicting advice from the same person in different contexts. Looking back, what was really happening? How might you approach similar situations differently now?
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