When Feeling Becomes Leverage
Once Bathsheba tries to set terms, both men change temperature. Boldwood's silence becomes reproach. Troy's charm curdles toward control. Feeling that was sold as love now functions as a fine for saying no.
Key Insight
When affection turns punitive after a boundary, you are not dealing with love. You are dealing with entitlement wearing love's mask. The tell is not the first gift. It is the invoice that arrives when you stop cooperating.
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