Chapter 27
When Boundaries Start to Blur
HIVING THE BEES The Weatherbury bees were late in their swarming this year. It was in the latter part of June, and the day after the interview with Troy in the hayfield, that Bathsheba was standing in her garden, watching a swarm in the air and guessing their probable settling place. Not only were they late this year, but unruly. Sometimes throughout a whole season all the swarms would alight on the lowest attainable bough—such as part of a currant-bush or espalier apple-tree; next year they would, with just the same unanimity, make straight off to the uppermost member of…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Decision Points
Think of a recent situation where you ended up agreeing to something you hadn't planned to do. Map out the specific steps that led from the initial request to your final yes. What was your emotional state at each point? Where were the moments you could have paused and reconsidered?
Consider:
- •Notice if someone helped you with a problem first, creating a sense of obligation
- •Look for moments when you felt special, interesting, or uniquely capable
- •Identify where small requests built up to bigger commitments
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone made you feel like you were choosing freely, but looking back, you realize they were guiding your decisions. What would you do differently now?
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