Chapter 08
The Art of Asking Permission
EVELINA TO THE REV. MR. VILLARS Howard Grove, March 26. THIS house seems to be the house of joy; every face wears a smile, and a laugh is at every body's service. It is quite amusing to walk about and see the general confusion; a room leading to the garden is fitting up for Captain Mirvan's study. Lady Howard does not sit a moment in a place; Miss Mirvan is making caps; every body so busy!-such flying from room to room!-so many orders given, and retracted, and given again! nothing but hurry and perturbation. Well but, my dear Sir, I…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Rewrite the Honest Request
Rewrite Evelina's letter as if she decided to be completely honest about wanting to go to London. Keep the same respect for Mr. Villars, but remove all the contradictions and disguised desires. Write what a direct, honest request would sound like while still showing love and respect for his judgment.
Consider:
- •How can you express strong desire without sounding demanding or selfish?
- •What's the difference between honest vulnerability and emotional manipulation?
- •How might Mr. Villars respond differently to direct honesty versus disguised pleading?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you wanted something badly but convinced yourself (and tried to convince others) that you didn't really care. What happened? How might the situation have played out differently with direct honesty?
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