Chapter 79
Wedding Plans Without the Bride
LETTER LXXIX. EVELINA IN CONTINUATION. October 9th. HOW agitated, my dear Sir, is the present life of your Evelina! every day seems important, and one event only a prelude to another. Mrs. Selwyn, upon her return this morning from the Hot Wells, entering my room very abruptly, said, "Oh, my dear, I have terrible news for you!" "For me, Ma'am!-Good God! what now?" "Arm yourself," cried she, "with all your Berry Hill philosophy;-con over every lesson of fortitude or resignation you ever learnt in your life;-for know,-you are next week to be married to Lord Orville!" Doubt, astonishment, and a…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Decision-Making Power
Think of a recent situation where someone made plans that affected you without asking your input first. Draw a simple diagram showing who had the power to decide, who was affected by the decision, and who was included in the planning process. Then identify what you could have said or done to insert yourself into the conversation.
Consider:
- •Consider whether the person genuinely thought they were helping you
- •Think about what power dynamics (age, authority, money, expertise) might have influenced the situation
- •Notice whether you felt guilty for wanting to be included in the decision
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you made decisions for someone else 'for their own good.' What did you tell yourself to justify not including them? How might they have felt about being excluded?
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