Distinguishing Genuine Help from Ego
Help That Needs an Audience
Emma sends Harriet to Isabella so both can avoid painful meetings. Freed from daily guilt, she enjoys Knightley's visits and calls on Jane with real attention at last. The help that matters is logistical, not theatrical: space for Harriet to heal, presence for Jane without a project.
Key Insight
Mature help removes embarrassment instead of managing it for display. When you stop needing to be the heroine of the recovery, repair can actually begin.






