Taking Correction From People Who Know You
The Friend Who Will Not Flatter
In the shrubbery each misreads the other's distress. She fears Harriet. He thinks she is still grieving Frank. What he says instead is the feeling he held while he told her the truth for years. The proposal is possible only after she has sat with a public fault instead of explaining it away. He was not trying to win an argument. He was trying to keep her someone he could respect.
Key Insight
Some honest friends are not collecting victories. They are refusing to watch you become a person who cannot be told. You do not get them as a prize for remaining clever. You get them after you can take the sentence.






