Chapter 05
The Courage to Face Truth
Of course she must buy the tea in Uncle Benjamin’s grocery-store. To buy it anywhere else was unthinkable. Yet Valancy hated to go to Uncle Benjamin’s store on her twenty-ninth birthday. There was no hope that he would not remember it. “Why,” demanded Uncle Benjamin, leeringly, as he tied up her tea, “are young ladies like bad grammarians?” Valancy, with Uncle Benjamin’s will in the background of her mind, said meekly, “I don’t know. Why?” “Because,” chuckled Uncle Benjamin, “they can’t decline matrimony.” The two clerks, Joe Hammond and Claude Bertram, chuckled also, and Valancy disliked them a little more…
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Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Fear Prison
Think of one area where you've been telling yourself you 'don't really want' something that you actually do want. Write down what you claim you don't want, then write what you're actually afraid would happen if you admitted wanting it. Finally, identify whose disapproval or judgment you're most afraid of facing.
Consider:
- •Notice how long you've been telling this particular lie to yourself
- •Consider whether the people you're afraid of disappointing actually have your best interests at heart
- •Ask yourself what the worst realistic outcome would be if you were honest about your desires
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you stayed quiet about something important because you were afraid of someone's reaction. What did that silence cost you, and what would you do differently now?
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