Loving Without Being Chosen
Lucy listens while Graham constructs an idealized Ginevra Fanshawe. Lucy knows Ginevra is vain. She cannot say so. He is not looking for truth. He is looking for confirmation of a woman he has already invented.
Key Insight
You cannot be chosen by someone who is only looking for a fantasy. Graham's blindness is not cruelty. It is worse: he is warm, decent, and completely unavailable to the person sitting beside him with actual information.






